Monday, August 31, 2009

Monday Update

Well, here it is Monday afternoon and nothing on my list for the weekend got done. I did manage to get the dog her shots and I am finishing up laundry, but other than that the cleaning plans were a bust. I had full intentions of cleaning my house, but we had a bit of a family crisis. My younger sister (who is only 35), husband of just a little over a year came home on Saturday evening and boldly announced he did not love her any more and told her to move out.
This came as a shock to everyone including her. The marriage for the most part had been good and they rarely argued. It seems that he is just tired of her, and feels she is lazy and he wants someone who will wait on him hand and foot, work (she works 60 hour weeks as a nurse), keep the house spotless, and be ready to jump up and go out and golf, fish, or do what ever he wants to do on a whim. He said he is tired of her having panic attack. (This is a condition she can't help)
She comes home tired and does lay around a lot and doesn't feel good most of the time, but he has known her for over four years and knew she was like this before he married her.

Anyway I say good reddens to bad rubbish. He is 10 years older than her, has two grown kids, a dead end job and together they are in debt so the lifestyle she leads is going no where fast.
I am pissed at him because it seems to me he used her to help get his last few years of child support paid off (His youngest was 18 and out of school this past spring)
Although my sister has a decent paying job, she doesn't really have the money to live completely on her own yet due to loans to pay back her school. She had no choice but to move back home with our mom and now she needs to re-group.
I spent the entire day over there yesterday helping her pack and prepare to move.
My son and his buddy came today and took her stuff out.
I think the reality of it all is hitting her and my mom said she has been crying.
It breaks my heart. This is her second marriage. She has no kids at lest, but I know this must be so hard for her.
Sigh

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1 Comments:

Blogger Kathy said...

That is sad and I'm pissed off for your sister, too. Tell her to get a good lawyer, then give her a hug for me.

September 1, 2009 at 4:25 PM  

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